Am I trying to be understanding in my relationships, or am I trying to be understood? I am getting better at trying to see that we all see things differently. My perspective is different from others perspective. The struggle for me is trying to get the other person, mostly, my spouse, to understand my way of seeing things. I am called to have the heart of a servant, which, for me, means I am supposed to try to see the other persons perspective. I am to try to understand first, instead of trying to be understood. For me, it’s about my pride. Wanting things my way! Being able to see the other person’s perspective first is a struggle, but I will keep working at it. Am I trying to win the battle, or win the relationship? How is your perspective?
Words & Actions
Make your actions match your words… Ever been in a situation where someone’s words did not match their actions?It not only makes it hard to trust the person or situation, but...
Trading the Truth for a Lie
Exchanging the truth for a lie… Part of being human and having free will is dealing with the constant challenges we face daily for our attention and focus. There are all kinds...
Judging Intentions…
But I just wanna be judged by my INTENTIONS while I judge you by your ACTIONS. ...Well that’s just dandy isn’t it?!?Maybe it’s just me, and perhaps you cannot relate,...
Walk Your Talk
Do what you say and say what you do… Have you ever noticed that the people you tend to trust the most are the ones whose walk matches their talk? Heck, we...