Thought Transformation

Be transformed….. 



Maybe it’s different for you, but I get these pictures in my head of the way my head thinks life is supposed to work. 


When these expectations dominate my thinking and fail to match real life then feelings of confusion and frustration attempt to dominate my mind. 


The thing I have learned over the years is that I have no right to set expectations on others. 


People are human, just like me, and will be prone to faults, fears, and forgetfulness. 


When I block the expectations and just stay in the moment, I have found that not only do things go well, but also my day and my life goes better. 


The blessing is that I get to turn my will and my day over to God every day and just focus on being of service to those He puts in my path. 


Are you allowing expectations to cloud your thinking?.. 


Check your experience… . 


“Before we begin, we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives.” Big Book pg 86 


Lord, let us trade our expectations of others into You for grace and acceptance, AMEN. 


“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” Romans 12:2 


Have a blessed day y’all! 


Join me in looking at the things we face daily with passages from both the Big Book and Bible! 


https://www.amazon.com/s?k=pastor+mark+farley&ref=nb_sb_noss 
0 407

If Nothing Changes…

If nothing changes then nothing changes…None of us are perfect. We each have things that need our attention and cannot be fixed without our participation and ownership. We need to own our...
0 446

Beware of Isolating Thoughts

There is no “i” in team…. A few years ago, I borrowed the phrase; “I can’t fix the head I got with the head I got.” from Brian C. from one of the...
0 402

Bad Moment

Don’t turn a bad moment into a bad day...It was in hearing and learning the St. Francis prayer in AA that I first learned that in order to be forgiven,...
0 297

Wants or Needs?

I want what I want WHEN I want it….Perhaps it’s different for you, but I can’t tell you how many times this thought has sparked reactions that led to actions...