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Not as things appear…

I have been thinking a great deal of late about how as men of God our actions are perceived by those who observe our actions from a distance and I keep having this thought come to mind:

“Satan saw me on my knees, with my head bowed low. He heard me speaking softly and weeping. He thought I had finally been beaten into submission. His thought was ‘I have finally beaten this one.’ Then I stood up, squared my shoulders, resettled my armor and said AMEN!”

Do the actions that others observe in us, truly reflect the strength of our core convictions? If not, why not?

Not Our First Rodeo

Que sera sera, whatever will be will be…. 


What makes the Bible so vibrant and vital to every generation and time period, including today is the fact that despite minor details, there is nothing new that the Bible doesn’t address. 


Think about it, the character defects of Pride, Anger, Greed, Lust, Envy, Gluttony, and Sloth (PAGLEGS to my 12 Step friends) are the driving forces behind every incident of self-will here on Earth. 


God knew this when He created us and knows this to be true of every human because it’s included in the DNA of our free will. 


Our hope is in the fact that we can turn our will over to the care of God and then these defects of character no longer run our lives and put us into situations that cause us and others pain…


Check your experience… 


“As we go through the day we pause, when agitated or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action. We constantly remind ourselves we are no longer running the show, humbly saying to ourselves many times each day “Thy will be done.” We are then in much less danger of excitement, fear, anger, worry, self-pity, or foolish decisions. We become much more efficient.” Big Book pgs. 87-88 


Lord, let us turn our will and our lives over to you daily and receive grace, peace, comfort, and direction, AMEN. 


“What has been is the same as what will be, and what has been done is the same as what will be done; there is nothing new under the sun.” Ecclesiastes 1:9 


Have a blessed day y’all! 


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You Got Skills!

We all have something to contribute… 


Most of us have a few things that we are good at and a few that …well…it’s probably best if we leave it to others more suited to that skill set. 


It’s a known fact among my family and friends that I have neither understanding nor purpose to handle tools. 


Oh I like them, they’re shiny, but I have no clue why Allen has his own named wrenches and Phillip gets his own screwdrivers! 


Luckily, my family, friends, and ministry partners have found things I am more suited to doing and we balance well off of each other. 


God gives each of us gifts and talents to not only use to help us while we walk here on Earth, but also to help others He puts in our path. 

What are your gifts and how are you using them to help yourself and others?… 


Check your experience…. 


“Helping others is the foundation stone “ Big Book pg 97 


Lord, please use our talents and gifts to help those You put in our path, AMEN. 


“Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit. And there are varieties of ministries and the same Lord. There are varieties of effects, but the same God who works all things in all persons. But to each one is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good.” 1 Corinthians 12: 4-7 


Have a blessed day Y’all! 


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How about a daily dose of hope and inspired thought?

Persistence

Am I being persistent, pushing through my struggles, moving ahead to where I know i need to go, or am I giving up? Am I taking the easy way out? For me, pushing through tough times is a challenge! I don’t always do what I know what is right. I give up! But, continuing to look up, not out, and reaching out to the men in my life for help, helps me to push through the tough times. To be persistent! I am grateful for the people God has blessed me with in my life!

Forgiving Sets Us Free

The power of forgiveness…. 


We all experienced this. 


Fueled by anger, resentment, and or thoughts of revenge,..


Our emotions produce words and actions that we would never allow if we were not caught up in the bad emotions of the moment. 

Sadly, some folks stay this way for years and it poisons all of the relationships around them. 


It’s OK to be upset when people, places, and things harm or hurt us, but it’s not ok to continue to replay that moment or event and let it influence the rest of our day, week, or year. 


The good news is that we can start our day over anytime we want. 


God makes this possible with His Spirit of forgiveness that lives inside each of us. 


While some wrongs can never be righted, we do not have to allow them to hold power over the rest of our lives. 


Are you holding any lingering resentments or allowing anger to influence your actions or relationships?… 


Check your experience… 


 “It is plain that a life which includes deep resentment leads only to futility and unhappiness.” Big Book pg 66 


Lord, let us give our hurts and anger to You in return for the peace and serenity that comes from forgiveness, AMEN. 


“Instead, be kind to one another, compassionate, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ also forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32 


Have a blessed day Y’all! 


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Help Others and Help Yourself

Hang on, help is on the way….. 

One of the most freeing experiences for me is to help another person. 


It frees me from the burden of self and puts perspective onto my self-centered perceptions of my challenges and problems. 


Now maybe it’s different for you, but when I can place my focus on helping another, my heart gets filled with not only a refreshing humility from the service but also,..

I gain a fresh perspective when I revisit my issue or challenge and it no longer appears to be such a problem, but a manageable challenge. 


This is how the Holy Spirit works in us and among us. 


Give it a try next time you feel your chips are down. 


Reach out and help someone and see how your day changes! …


Check your experience… 


“Then we resolutely turn our thoughts to someone we can help.” Big Book pg 84 


Lord, let us look to help others and be of service, in order to gain perspective on our issues and challenges, AMEN. 


“Help each other in troubles and problems. This is the kind of law Christ asks us to obey.” Galatians 6:2 


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Faith It Until You Make It

Faith is not believing that God can…


It is in knowing that God will… 


Wouldn’t it be great if we could wake up every morning with a faxed or emailed itinerary of EXACTLY how our day will go? 


No more guessing, juggling, and figuring out, just seeing and doing. 


Unfortunately, we live in a real world with other real people, places, and things that are ALWAYS changing. 


The good news is that we actually DO have the daily itinerary! 


It’s in our hearts and all we have to do is drop the expectations on people, places, and things and walk forward in faith, knowing God has the end result covered!


 All we need to do is participate fully with our hearts. 


Think about it. 


 Doesn’t your day go so much better when you drop the expectations and just be? … 


Check your experience… 


“In this book you read again and again that faith did for us what we could not do for ourselves.” Big Book pg 70 


Lord, let us walk in faith and not in expectation, AMEN. 


“For we walk by faith, not by sight” 2 Corinthians 5:7 


 Have a blessed day y’all! 


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What am I investing in?

“A beautiful reputation is more to be desired than great riches, and to be esteemed by others is more honorable than to own immense investments.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭22:1‬ ‭TPT‬‬

Am I exhausting myself in investing in things of this world that I will leave behind, or am I investing in things that really matter?
In the end, all that matters is God and people

It’s a Matter of the Heart

It’s a matter of the heart… 


Have you ever heard or used the expressions; 


“’ You’re all heart, ‘; ‘She has a lot of heart’ ; or ‘bless his heart’”?


 Hopefully, we use and or hear those phrases associated with good thoughts. 

They are spiritually based and character driven by design. 


The Bible is full of examples and references to our heart and how we should guard it, allow good to flow from it, and protect it. 


The fact of the matter is that God not only sees our hearts but also knows what fills it and how it fuels our lives

So, what do you see when you look at your heart? …


Check your experience… 


“Here was something at work in a human heart which had done the impossible.” Big Book pg 11 


Lord, open our hearts to contain good and grace and remove those things that get in the way of our usefulness to You and those You would have us help, AMEN. 


“God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7 


Have a blessed day y’all! 


Join me in looking at the things we face daily with passages from both the Big Book and Bible! 


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How about a daily dose of hope and inspired thought? 

Risks and Rewards

Keep walking the Path…. 


It seems no matter what the reward is, there is some form of risk involved. 


From a child first learning to trust gravity to ride a bike, to the risks we take as adults with relationships, finances, employment, and other worldly things,…


We have to risk something to gain something else. 


Risk is part of our Earthly experience and a great exercise for us to build and practice our faith as we seek the reward. 


Sometimes we hit bumps in the road but if we keep our hearts and eyes focused on our goal, our risk does not become ruled by fear and our faith carries us through. 


Measure your risk with your faith and see how it helps! 


As always, don’t take it from me, rather….


Check your experience… 


“Faith has to work twenty-four hours a day in and through us, or we perish.” Big Book pg. 16 


Lord, let our hearts know that our risk, supported by our faith will carry us through to the reward, AMEN 


“So be truly glad. There is wonderful joy ahead, even though you must endure many trials for a little while.” 1Peter 1:6 


Have a blessed day Y’all! 


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